 Podcast
Confessions of an On Line Dater - how to deal with getting back in the dating game
On line dating sites are numerous and are offering their potential customer the “happy ever after” they may be shopping for. However, the one thing the sites cannot do is deal with the inevitable stress that comes with dating, even on the internet.
You still get rejected and confused just like real life dating. “Confessions of an on line dater ” is free an internet seminar that will also review the top three on line dating sites. You will learn how to deal with the stresses that come with dating in the 21st century.
Confessions of an On Line Dater - how to deal with getting back in the dating game
When I was 6 years old, I won a “Cinderella” storybook at school. My six year old mind was in awe of the beautiful illustrations and the happy ending. Cinderella seemingly married the handsome prince and lived happily ever after. This after just one date!
No one I know has met someone just once and then married them. And was that really very smart of Cinderella? She obviously knew something we don’t which is, I guess, why she has her own fairytale book.
Sadly, I know very few “happy ever afters”, and of the ones I do know, none are from my generation. They are from a time when you stayed together no matter what.
It does seem that having an ideal relationship nowadays is a fairytale. Today it seems harder than ever just to meet someone, let alone get married or decide to become a couple. Why? I think we are all just a little too busy. We make time for everything that seems to be important; jobs, meetings, housework but few of us make time for ourselves.
To all the young girls watching today’s women, I wonder what they must think. We are so independent, so focused on careers and getting ahead we often lose sight of the important things in life. We miss out on making connections with others.
Enter a powerful and useful tool, the internet. If time is a luxury, then on line dating can be a wonderful addition to your social outreach.
No time to go out and meet someone? No problem, take a few minutes, go to one of the many dating sites, sign up, and five minutes later, you have a world of potential dates or relationships at your fingertips. The excitement never needs to end! You can be on line, cyberly cruising, 24/7.
Pros? Cons? There are many of both, but if you are finding yourself lonely and wanting companionship, this is a great way to screen out the good, the bad and the ugly. You have to be careful not to set yourself up for disappointment, be real. Be cautious and be adventurous all at the same time. It is all about balance and common sense. Don’t go crazy.
With online dating comes heartache and joy, your old baggage and theirs, disapproving relatives and many many other issues, Come to think of it, it’s not unlike dating in the real world.
How do you manage? There are many ways to go back to or begin dating, in the real world or on line. There are also many ways to get yourself ready to face the challenges and the joys that you’ll encounter as you face this new phase of your life.
Be positive! Positive people are optimistic and have more success in everything that they do. Be the person you want to attract. Want to meet someone fun and exciting? Be fun and exciting yourself.
In my workshop and Internet Seminar, “My Laptop or Yours?” we explore whether or not you’re a fun date person, and why. Even if you are not out there looking for date or life partner, start today to make positive changes in your life and notice the difference. Just smile more, treat yourself to something special, be kind to an animal, it is that simple.
If you’re still jealous of Cinderella, don’t be. Women who wear glass slippers and let other women boss them around obviously have their own issues. However, if the shoe fits……………. To book contact
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teleseminar - July 2012
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